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Chamber Considering All Viewpoints for Chick-fil-A COO's Visit

The Prince William Chamber Board of Directors will decide in August whether to explore other plans regarding the November visit of Chick-fil-A President and Chief Operating Officer Dan T. Cathy.

 

The Prince William Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors will decide in early August if they will go forward with plans to host a visit from Chick-fil-A’s Chief Operating Officer.

Dan Cathy has recently been the subject of media attention in response to his stance on the definition of marriage.

Cathy is slated to speak during a Nov. 27 Prince William County Chamber of Commerce event titled, “Your Leadership Toolkit” at the Hylton Performing Arts Center.

Cathy, a leader of the family-owned, 45-year-old restaurant chain, is expected to share pointers on business leadership during the event.  

The chamber has received feedback from the public concerning Cathy’s visit and comments he publicly made regarding traditional marriage.

Some told chamber officials they weren’t pleased with Cathy’s planned visit and wanted officials to reconsider, chamber communications manager Andrea Whaley said Thursday. Others expressed their happiness about Cathy’s visit, Whaley said.

The chamber board of directors have a meeting planned for the first full week in August, she said. Among other topics of discussion, they will decide if they want to go in another direction regarding the planned visit based on what chamber member's viewpoints are, she added.

Board of directors meetings are closed to the public, but chamber members can direct their comments on the matter to Rob Clapper, Prince William Chamber CEO and president via email at rclapper@pwcchamber.org.

Cathy goes on an annual tour around the country to meet restaurant operators, Whaley said. He asked to address Prince William chamber members during that tour, making it his only stop in the mid-Atlantic region, she said.

The Chick-fil-A store in Woodbridge, located near Potomac Mills, was the top store in the country last year and he wanted to address the chamber closest to it, Whaley said.

Cathy's Comments: 'Emotional DNA' and Raising Teens

Cathy spoke on the Ken Coleman radio show in June on Father’s Day weekend as part of an segment on strong fathers, according to audio of episode posted online on June 18, 2011.

There is “emotional DNA” that God intended for us to get from a mother and a father, Cathy said on the show.

That’s essential for getting through the teen years and as an employer, they sometimes have to take on the role as parent to employees who don’t have that, Cathy said.

“… As for society in general, I think we are inviting God's judgment on our nation when we shake our fist at Him and say, 'We know better than you as to what constitutes a marriage,'" Cathy said. "I pray God's mercy on our generation that has such a prideful, arrogant attitude to think that we have the audacity to define what marriage is about."

Cathy defended the company’s support of the traditional family in the Baptist Press saying he was, “guilty as charged,” in connection with its stance.

The company is supportive of the family unit as defined in the Bible, Cathy told the Baptist Press early this month.

In a July 19 post on the Chick-fil-A Facebook Page, company officials wrote that it is its, “culture and service tradition in our restaurants is to treat every person with honor, dignity and respect – regardless of their belief, race, creed, sexual orientation or gender.”

In response to Cathy's comments, now-former customers and public officials across the country have protested Chick-fil-A in person at restaurants and online through sites like BoycottChickfilA.com.

Related Topics: Cathy visits Prince William Chamber, Chick-Fil-A, Dan T. Cathy, Hylton Performing Arts Center, and Prince William Chamber

sandra

6:23 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

I agree 101% with Mr. Cathy's stand on biblical marriage. If those who don't agree and wish to eat elsewhere, fine, that is their perogative. There is always a Mc'Donalds down the road.

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Marianne Eastman

10:53 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

I wonder about people who "agree 101%" - how is that possible. And Ms. Gibson, as the Editor of the Patch, you should be unbiased, and keep your opinion to yourself.

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Vasquez2

1:02 am on Monday, July 30, 2012

Ms. Gibson, THANK YOU for voicing your opinion as well. Editor or not, you, as much as anyone else, have the right to voice your opinion. Besides, just about every other journalist in the news these days is "opining", no reason you can't do it too!!
I have a family member with 30 years in the field of broadcast journalism who would tell you that there is no such thing as an unbiased journalist or unbiased journalism. Just as long as we know that up front, it's all good. It's the honesty and full disclosure that matters.

Kathy

6:48 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Mr. Cathy has as much of a constitutional right as anyone else in this country (or at least he is SUPPOSED to) to voice his personal opinion on what he believes. Those who are screaming that he discriminates and is an intolerant bigot need to look at how THEY are acting toward him. They are so blind that they can't see how intolerant they themselves are. The hatred lashed at this man is unbelievable. They say because HE doesn't believe what THEY believe means he HATES a certain people. No, it does not. I believe the same as Mr. Cathy, but I do not hate ANYONE. This has been blown completely out of proportion. If you don't like what Mr. Cathy believes then simply don't give him your business. I will not shop at Home Depot because of what they stand for. I do not spew hatred and vulgarity at their CEO's. I do not threaten them. I simply do not shop at their store. By the way.... my son is gay. We love each other even though we do not share the same beliefs.

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John DeLucca

7:27 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

So what! The man believes in traditional marriage. Leave him alone.

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Duane Snodgrass

8:15 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Sandra, do you know what biblical marriage is?
Marrying your sister (Genesis 20:12), or maid (Genesis 16:3)

If a woman can't prove she is a virgin when she gets married she can be stoned. (Deuteronomy 22 13-21)

If a man rapes a woman he will marry her. (Deuteronomy 22 28-29)

What do you do when you can't find a woman in your area? You go to another tribe, kill all the men and women who aren't virgins and marry the virgins. (Judges 21: 7-23)

I could go on, but you get the point.

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Jamie M. Rogers

3:12 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

Hey Duane! Good to hear from you. Some Christians would say that God allowed marriage between siblings and allowed a man to have more than one wife, but he doesn't allow that now because Jesus came to the Earth and outlined a new standard for marriages. Others would point out that the passages you mentioned from Deuteronomy are from the law given to Moses by God for the Israelites . Since then, Jesus has established a new law which takes the place of the old one and so the old one doesn't apply anymore, Christians can study them and learn from the principal of that law. What would you say to that? Thanks!

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barbara grant

9:13 pm on Saturday, July 28, 2012

You need to read more of the Bible and not just pick a few passages for your own thoughts. Have you ever read the New Testament and the life and examples of Jesus? When Jesus came, everything changed for the good. Of course you wouldn't know this since you evidently haven't read it. I pray that you will. God loves you.

Bob

8:23 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

My Cathy has a right of free spech just like everyother American. I helped fight for this right yet some people want to stop him from speching just because they don't believe in his point of view.
Bob

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Bob

8:25 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Mr. Cathy has a right of free spech just like everyother American. I helped fight for this right yet some people want to stop him from speching just because they don't believe in his point of view.
Bob

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Duane Snodgrass

8:40 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Bob, Free speech works both ways. You have your right to an opinion, I have a right to mine. We both have the right to express it and have a respectful debate on any issue. And you can be guaranteed when someone uses the Bible to back up their hate they had better expect to be countered with truth.

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Vasquez2

12:46 am on Monday, July 30, 2012

There is no "hate" as you call it, in Mr. Cathy's language. That is, at best, a complete misrepresentation. While I'm not in favor of the "redefinition" of marriage and while I agree with Mr. Cathy's interpretation, I, nevertheless" attended wedding ceremony of a gay friend of mine that I've known and loved since grade school. Again, I couldn't call it a marriage but, really neither did he (they). They tended to think more in terms of a civil union. To use his own words, "marriage is nothing more than a religious ceremony, a contract between a man, a woman and God". We (he and his fiance) sought no such agreement and have instead opted for a secular "agreement" between each other, sans God so, it's really not a "marriage" in the true definition of the word. On this, we agreed.

Bob

8:58 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

I agree with you 100% that why in my note to Prince William Chamber CEO. I included.
along with the above "Just think, if we stopped every one from speaking just because someone disagreed with their views we could change USA to China or North Korea and all stay at home.

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Isaac Cohen

8:59 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Please don’t miss the point here people. Mr. Cathy has the right to his beliefs, but those beliefs have the potential to become policy that supports inequality. We live in a pluralistic and a multicultural society, so equal treatment and a level playing field is so important. My family (and I have also encouraged my friends) to stop patronizing Chik-fil-A until it’s clear whether or not there are discriminatory practices at that company. its not really clear how far-reaching his opinion really is in that company. Cathy can believe what he wants, but it’s the company policy and action towards employees that is important. There are plenty of other publicly traded fast food enterprises out there to eat at.

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Wonton

5:00 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

it's just a clear there is no discriminatory practice. they don't serve beef, but that doesn't mean they hate cows

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flsnupe

11:17 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

I am tiring of the "get em" attitude of those who speak how they feel about marriage. Making a statement by not patronizing a business is an individual right. Using boycotts to intimidate those who disagree though is starting to get on my nerves really. The gay community will not be able to bully people into acceptance. Those who believe in traditional marriage deserves love too. This is getting out of hand.

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barbara grant

9:18 pm on Saturday, July 28, 2012

I should think Mr. Cathy is the kind of person who would love everyone and treat them fairly. He doesn't have to love what they do if it is wrong in his mind as proclaimed by the Bible. Too manypeople are getting on the bandwagon that says, don't speak up, just go along, etc. I am glad he spoke up.

J. Walter Swartz

9:22 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

They have a right to say whatever they want, I have a problem with my tax money going to pay for their visit. I don't want my tax money to pay for racists, religious fundamentalists (regardless of race color or religion), the KKK, Nazi's etc. There is a great difference between people who protest how others live their lives and people who protest being told how they must live their lives. One is invasive and the other is self defense.

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Vasquez2

1:51 am on Monday, July 30, 2012

He's not telling you how you should live your life, he was expressing HIS opinion and HIS belief system, something he has a right to do in this country without being punished for it (for now, anyways)! I happen to embrace the same belief system but that doesn't have any affect on you!! It's your life, your choices, you consequences, good or bad. His opinion does not, in any way, "invade' your life or anyone elses.
It was a conversation about his Christian faith while being interviewed by a Christian publication!! If he was making this company policy that's different. He's not. Base on these circumstances, sounds to me like it's YOU who is violating HIS rights!!
I have friends that are gay, my very closest, lifelong friend is gay! I don't agree with his lifestyle. But I love him. I'd take a bullet for him. He knows my feelings, he loves me too. See, that's what love does that hate can't ever do...transcend circumstances and disagreements. Haters can't make that leap. That's why they dont' get it when a Christian says, "hate the sin, love the sinner". That's incomprehensible to a "hater", so they resort to name calling and doing what they do best, making noise, making ridiculous comparisons and trying to stir up more hate. BTW,..guess who else is supporting CFA....my gay friend and his partner...know why...because we all agree on 1 thing...the 1st amendment...

Erin Gibson

10:17 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

I think it is a good thing when businesses in our community take a stand. After all, they are part of our community. We spend time, money there. Our kids work in the restaurants, etc. I think more business owners and CEOs would take a stand, but they are probably too afraid of a backlash. At least Mr. Cathy is showing he CARES and being CONSISTENT in the company's beliefs and practices, which has always been very traditional (i.e. being closed on Sunday, teaming up with local Christian bookstores in the neighborhood, etc.) Besides if a company is CAREFUL and CONSISTENT in their operations/mission then their food will most likely be that way.

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Alice LaBier

11:07 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

I believe as Kathy wrote at 6:48am this morning. In addition to that he is not speaking to the Chamber Members on his beliefs, but on “Your Leadership Toolkit...
Why should the "political machine" influence who should speak at a Chamber Event???

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Lisa R. Johnson

3:05 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

Ms. Alice you are so right. His speaking has nothing to do with personal beliefs but how to effectively use leadership to enhance and grow your business. I would love to hear him seak.

J. Walter Swartz

11:26 am on Friday, July 27, 2012

Honestly who cares what his political beliefs are. The only jobs he brings in are minimum wage. IE the least that a person can legally pay. If the chamber is funded with tax money then every tax payer has a right to say "I don't want my money going there". I have no idea what you mean by "political machine".

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Charles Burgher

12:37 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

This is representative of the "New America" where everybody seems offended by everything. As children we are taught to stand up for our beliefs, though they may not be popular. In reality, many don't REALLY subscribe to that lesson.

I agree with Mr. Cathy; marriage, until recentlay, has always been between a man and a woman in our country. I don't hate, nor dislike gay people. It's unfortunate that when someone tells the truth about something that many "intolerant" people pounce on them. And you wonder why politician's never tell us the truth!

Kudos to this man for not crumbling and succumbing to the intolerant masses.

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Charles Burgher

1:31 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

Mr. Cohen, I just read your comment. Chik-fil-A doesn't discriminate against anyone. They serve anybody and everybody that has the funds to buy their product.
Mr. Cathy also chooses to close their stores on Sunday. Does that offend people too? When I was growing up most businesses were closed on Sunday. Now we make people work on Christmas day.

There are many big cities that spend thousands of dollars to host Gay Pride Parades. Would these same cities spend to host a Heterosexual Day? I doubt it. Does this mean that they discriminate against people that are heterosexual? Oddly, you don't hear straight people like myself wanting to boycott travel to those cities. Is it just me or does this seem like a double standard to you?

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Vinny Darby

3:08 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

I don't care about Mr. Cathy's personal beliefs or whether he speaks as a succesful business man at our local chamber of commerce. I will not, however, spend any money at a company who is directed by it's COO to donate over $2,000,000 to organizations that work to reduce the rights of gay americans. I think that is the reason many are outraged. They found out that their money spent on chicken sandwiches had been used to promote an agenda they don't agree with. I don't think the the majority of the backlash is directed at the man himself, just the direction he has led the company and it's profits.

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Charles Burgher

5:02 pm on Friday, July 27, 2012

I like to educate myself, Mr. Darby. What are those organizations? Are they really actively engaged in reducing the rights of gay Americans? I'm serious, I'd like to know.

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Lea

11:39 am on Saturday, July 28, 2012

From what I understand, Mr. Cathy doesn't discriminate in his hiring practices. Mr. Cathy has a right to donate money to whatever cause he feels is important and people who are offended have the right to eat elsewhere. I would be interested in knowing which organizations (to which Mr. Cathy donated $2,000,000 plus) exist for the sole purpose of reducing the rights of gays. What particular rights? I hope Manassas or Manassas Park is going to keep an open mind. If you don't agree, don't show up to listen to the man speak. If you want to broaden your horizons (regardless of your political bent), then go and listend to what the man has to say.

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Dwayne & Maryanne Moyers

1:18 am on Sunday, July 29, 2012

Someone at the Chamber of Commerce needs to be reminded Chick-fil-A is a registered business paying taxes in Prince William County. Refusing to meet with the owner of a national franchise because he simply exercised his right to the First Amendment is stupid. Chick-fil-A is not banning gay and lesbian customers. The CEO of this company answered a question with his personal opinion. Nothing more. Get a spine Chamber of Commerce. Do your job. Promote business.

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Mark J. Montinieri

8:19 pm on Sunday, July 29, 2012

I was at the one in Manassas on Friday night. Very busy. Went to the one in Woodbridge off the Prince William Parkway on Saturday, very busy there as well. If there is any kind of boycott going on, then there must be others giving Chick Fil-A more business than usual in protest of the protesters. Look, I don't care what Dan Cathy said, the food is great, the restaurants are clean, the employees are professional and courteous, far better than any McDonalds, Wendys, Burger King, Taco Bell, Popeyes, or KFC that I have been to. Go ahead and boycott Chick Fil-A, just means more for me.

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Vasquez2

12:55 am on Monday, July 30, 2012

I personally know A LOT of people who have stepped up their support of Chik-Fil-A because of this, not all "religious" people either. In fact, I'd say most are doing so less in support of religion and more in support of 1st amendment rights (and the fact that we're all sick of boycotting, I'm offended by everything, whiners...Geez, if you don't like the organization, or what they stand for, go to McDs! This business of trying to shut down or demonize anyone with whom you disagree is getting out of hand...I read about this kind of thinking in my history book years ago...not good.

boseamus

1:39 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Let the Chamber members decide. They are capable, they can be culpable.

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Rita Colleran

3:37 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

I agree with Vasquez2. Chik Fil A performs many good things that are overlooked in this article and comments. I am joining in on the Support Chick Fil-A Day today. BTW, I do have many gay friends and have for many years. Like mine, their life style is theirs. I do agree that they should have unions that provide all the legal benefits appropriated to marriages between men and women.

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